When a person feels comfortable with who they are, they can talk to others. When a person has no self-esteem, love and sex will not work. 'If the person you try to talk to becomes super defensive and you do the same, it means that there is something spiritually, mentally or psychologically wrong.
'The only way you can know if there is a way to correct the incompatibility is if you are capable to speak to each other about what's missing without anyone becoming insulted,' he said. Jian told INSIDER, however, that this should be one of your first moves when you notice the sexual incompatibility.
It may sound like a no-brainer, but you'd be surprised how many couples neglect to communicate their issues when it comes to sex.
